Ergy ThÓughts

Haven’t been writing blog for quite some time. I’m not really sure what to write about, because I guess i have too much to say at a time. The biggest difference between here and Malaysia is the people. So let me talk bout social life.

I feel a little bad that, so far, I haven’t been really hanging out with malaysians. It’s certainly not that i don’t want to but I just don’t make an effort to stick to any group deliberately. I go around and mix with whatever people I have a chance to meet. I didn’t join the malaysian society here, because i don’t know what’s that for. For the time being, neitheir do i mingle much with british. In my previous blog I talked about how hard to get along with them. But it’s actually not for me now. I can talk to them quite easily but just normal friends..not close ones.

Normally I get along with international students well. There’s an amazing chance to meet up people from all around the world. I mean it. I’ve got to know friends from singapore, vietnam, china, ciprus, russia, latvia, kazhakstan, greece, france, spain, italy, germany, columbia, japan, korea, hong kong, taiwan, US, indonesia, costa rica, zimbabwe, nigeria, mauritus, peru, brazil, utopia, czech republic, iran and others.

I learnt that the first criteria to have good socializing skills is confidence. Being nice, smile all the way, humble, polite and laugh at all the jokes people make are not gonna work miracles here. On the contrary, confident and self-sufficient person easily draws people in. One who is happy by his ownself and knows what he needs to do to live a good life can be quite intriguing to other people. And most people need a leader. When someone knows where to head to, what he wants, how to lead, then people will follow.

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